Using Sex For Money

"Do you know how to tell if you're coming or going?" She purred. "Nooo, tell me." I said. "Cum is white, pee is yellow." She slowly said, smiling, pressing into me and keeping eye contact.

That conversation happened twenty five years ago, and not much has changed. Some people still flirt and charm, seducing and deceiving to get their way. It's still all about sex and money, and I expect it will always be.

The flirting and using sex to get money disgusts me (there's a common word for that, which I won't use here), but that's not the only method used... there's other ways to hook somebody. There really is a battle of the sexes: One want companionship and the other wants their money. That's because it's easier to flirt than go to school, embark upon a career, work hard and save money. And flirting and deceiving works well. Hell, just paying attention to somebody works well. We're suckers. We make the same mistake over and over again. We don't learn because we fall in love every 5 or 10 years, forgetting what it was like or hoping that this one is worth it. Mencken said that love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

Part of this too is that the femme fatales are all different in their attacks. Sort of the way insurgents change the way they use IEDs in Iraq. Some femmes use innocence now as a tool, which works great against co-dependents. Some of this, it is claimed, is their own self-deception, but deception is deception, whether by hook or crook.

Of course, besides catching somebody, the flirting and charming could also be game playing, control and ego issues, or need for excitement. They should discover a bike ride over a mountain instead... adrenalin galore, great satisfaction and complete control over yourself and the bike.

My suggestion to young men is to save themselves... get a vasectomy now, while they can. That reduces the trauma and financial loss at the end. And might keep the femmes away too.

The only successful marriages I see are where the couple married young, right out of school, and grew together.

-©2007 by Willy
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